Why is it that celebrities always look so good? They don’t!

The hard reality when living in a media controlled world is that we are forced to compare ourselves to near perfect images on screen and in magazines. Women use celebrities as role models and would go to impossible lengths to try and look like them. What we seem to forget is that nearly all of today’s images are tampered with, skin tones improved, moles removed and a host of other changes done before they get released.

Nowadays you walk into a lingerie store and walk out again empty handed. Why? Because compared to the sexy flawless lingerie model pasted all over the store walls, you just don’t come close. How could you ever look that good? What man would ever find your body type attractive when miss big boobs and tiny bum is imprinted in their minds? This is the onslaught of thoughts that run through your head as you turn to flee in terror from the lingerie shop.

Hold on now. Have you forgotten what we all know about those images? They aren’t real people, their size 4 hips have been airbrushed and color put in her emaciated cheeks. You don’t want to measure up to that ideal. Being perfect, looking flawless all the time is unrealistic.

Men understand this more than women do. They might like to fantasize about the perfect woman but they know she’s about as real as the paper she’s printed on. Take a step back ladies. It’s the insecurities you have about yourself that chase men away. No man wants to be with a girl who won’t swim because she’s afraid of him seeing her fat thighs. He knows they’re pudgy. He likes you anyway.

Imagine a world were you could step into a lingerie shop, buy yourself what ever you want and leave feeling good about yourself. You have to make it happen, while the celebrities continue to outshine even the most beautiful normal girl.